Debunking Relationship Myths:

"Myth: You can't find a wife in a club."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: You certainly can find a wife at a club.

I met my husband on my birthday in a club.

It does happen.

"Myth: A good wife is a Christian and conservative."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: Religion and politics don't guarantee good marriages. Seen this in countless examples including my parents' and their struggles.

It showed me that indoctrination often deters joy in a marriage. The secret to a good marriage is never giving up on each other.

Myth: “Find yourself a good girl."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: Humans have both good and evil tendencies. Believing someone is good because they say so, sets you up for failure.

Actions, not words, show true respect.

Myth: “He needs peace in a woman."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: No relationship, woman or man, is consistently peaceful.

True character shows in struggle.

Seek someone who builds you up and strengthens your weaknesses.

Myth: “You’re married what do you know about dating."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: Marriage is the qualification for dating. You date your spouse everyday of your life.

You not only have to be consistent in your efforts but you do not have down time like single people who can fake the fuck.

Myth: “If you want a wife, date with intention."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: Great relationships begin with fun.

Don’t start off like a job interview.

Unrealistic expectations set you up for failure.

Socialize, learn about that person and a good relationships will follow.

Myth: “Find your soulmate, someone like you."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: Opposites attract because differences make you stronger.

Where one lacks, the other strengthens. Accept and leverage these differences to win together.

Myth: “A good wife must be a virgin."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: Bad wives who were virgins get divorced every day. Focus on someone who values themselves and has earned respect.

Myth: “Men fall in love sooner than women."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: Men romanticize love; they don't fall in love sooner. Society conditions men to idealize women early on, often before knowing their character.

Myth: “Men are more emotional than women."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: Men are more aggressive; women are more emotional due to hormonal cycles.

Know the difference.

Myth: “I want to find my partner in life."

𝐅𝐀𝐂𝐓: Relationships aren’t business arrangements. Your mate is not your business partner but your girlfriend, wife, spouse, or mate.

You do not have sex with your business partner.

Conclusion: Understanding how myths deceive reality in relationships on social media help you realize why more so than ever before people are confused on knowing their roles in their relationship.

The sooner we accept truth and change, the better it will be.

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