If you're dating, you've likely heard this from a woman:

• "OMG, you sleep with so many women?"

• "You're not my type."

• "Do you say that to all women?"

• "You must be a player."

• "Let's just be friends."

These are shit tests; don't let them phase you.

When she's still not sold on you, she'll test you to see if she deems you worthy.

It's easy to put on a charade through social media; women know this, so they will shit test.

Here is how to pass with confidence?⬇️

#1 Agree & Amplify:

Amplifying and agreeing show confidence and let her know you're not affected.

Example:

• Her: "OMG, you sleep with so many women?"

• Response: "Totally, I'm already at 13 this week."

  
  

• Her: "You're not my type."

• Response: "Phew, that's exactly what I was thinking too. Glad someone said it."

  
  

#2 Disagree and Amplify:

Disagreeing lets her know you can stay fun in disagreements.

Example:

• Her: "OMG, you sleep with so many women?"

• Response: "How dare you say that; I'm actually a very proud virgin."

  
  

• Her: "Do you say that to all women?"

• Response: "Not really, well maybe my grandmother, but I should probably stop doing that, ya think?!"

  
  

#3 Flip the Script:

This strategy takes her shit test and flips it right back to her.

Example:

• Her: "You must be a player."

• Response: "Actually, since you're on social media all the time, you have more experience flirting with strangers. Can you give me some pointers?"

#4 Plain Agreement:

You don't always need strategy. Sometimes plain agreement, staying calm, confident, and unaffected, is the best course of action.

Example:

• Her: "You must be a player."

• Response: "Yeah, I'm a guy, I like women."

  
  

• Her: "We are not having sex."

• Response: "Good, my period came."

  
  
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Remember, technology is escapism; it's easy to hide authenticity.

But human desires remain the same.

Those in long-term relationships have the ability to see through facades better because they have built qualities such as loyalty, integrity, and honor.

However, opportunities to create better conversations and show the best of yourself are possible.

With practice, you'll be able to spot, pass, and avoid shit tests like a real champion.